Dating a big guy
” or “He’s really funny, trust me.” Or even, “I don’t care about trivial things like height.” You should not have to make justifications about your choice of mate. So you call him your "little munchkin" and ask if he can reach the top shelf without a stool. He wants to be a “man.”He has a classic Napoleon complex.For some reason, people think that you must be desperate for a boyfriend -- just because he's short. You just look so cute standing on that little ledge. ”You just can’t help wondering, “Is that suit jacket from the boys' section at Barney’s, or what? The issue is that he is already self-conscious about his petite stature. He talks loudly, makes crazy jokes and always wants to be the life of the party. Luckily, he has an amazing personality, because he spent so long making up for his height.You don’t want this to affect your relationship, but somehow it just does. But having a short guy on top of you is always slightly awkward.No matter how many times you tell yourself you’re totally fine with this, it’s still there in the back of your head, eating away at your happiness. You’re the one who agreed to date him in the first place, you a-hole! When his feet reach only the tops of your ankles, it's weird. He always upgrades you to the extra legroom airplane seats when you go on vacation. Even if you want to because he ate your Cheetos and those were your favorite and he knows it. We love them, we hate them, and sometimes we date them. But even me -- a gal of 5 feet and 4 inches -- has problems. When you’re out in public and people look at you, you wonder if they're thinking that you're a girl with a short boyfriend. A girl who is 5’9" is obviously going to think most guys are pretty f*cking short. Once you’re towering over him, he’s ready for you to get back down to his level.
He wasn’t exactly shorter than me, but he had maaaaaaaybe an inch on me. There’s nothing wrong with dating a guy who’s shorter than you, but it does come with its difficulties. He’ll constantly ask you why you always wear flats.
When I say "short," I’m talking like 5’7" and under. He may have a beautiful face, killer abs and a stellar personality, but all you or anyone else can seem to focus on is that your boo is a tiny little munchkin.
I’m not wearing heels so I can be a solid 5 inches taller than you (and that’s in kitten heels)." When you do wear heels, he immediately realizes the error of his ways.
You used to love being a tall, sexy woman, but now it just feels like a problem over which you have zero control.
Your internalization of the patriarchy makes you question why you’re dating him. You feel insecure about it, and that makes you feel like a huge dick.
Bigger City Profile - J-Mo Bear Today we’re interviewing a big man, chaser, and internet viral sensation J-Mobear.