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He has ulterior motives for the nice things he does actually do for you.
On the off chance he does surprise you with a gift, it’s only to get back into your good graces.
Suddenly, he’s tired or hungry or whatever other BS excuse he can come up with to not have to listen to you. He’s made it abundantly clear that his needs are far more important than yours.
Once he’s finished, he’s ready to go straight to sleep — he couldn’t care less that you were left unsatisfied.
He doesn’t want to hear you complain about how crappy a boyfriend he is, so he does the bare minimum in order to avoid that discussion.
Let’s say I like a woman a lot, and I want to keep seeing her.
Many women would tell me I’m selfish for wanting that.
But here’s the thing: If I’m clear and upfront about my intentions, I’ll naturally weed out any woman who wants an exclusive, monogamous relationship.
You need to stop being selfish and put my needs first.”That’s just a bad situation for both of us. So, let’s figure out where the miscommunication happened.”If I had been upfront with this woman from the get-go, she would've already known I travel a lot.
At this point, I have to say, “Well, we need to look at this situation and figure out why me asking for something that’s in my best interest is also not in yours. She would've known I’m not going to be exclusive with her, but I still want to treat her right and sleep with her whenever I can. She can’t be upset when you ultimately turn out to be exactly who you told her you were in the first place.