And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!
A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.
For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!
本音 Honne = Real intention; motive; true opinion; what one really thinks. Have you seen an old samurai movie where the daimyo lord will promise a samurai riches and women, only to betray and force the samurai to commit seppuku (warrior’s suicide) for the benefit of Japan? These are the good traits and characteristics that most Japanese girls share. If you’ve ever dated or are currently dating a Japanese woman, you will know what I’m about to say… Japanese people love to travel (if they can get the time off). Unfortunately, some will jump in front of a moving train.The language and culture barrier is a wall that would make Donald Trump proud. Ask them about these topics and they will definitely share their stories and experiences. This can become a huge problem in relationships as they don’t want to share their true feelings about what you do, how you dress and where you go out. This is what it feels like when you first start dating a Japanese women; the lights and cameras are on, and they want to impress. As you start dating Japanese women, ask these following questions to yourself: Because a woman travels a lot, dated other foreigners and has lived overseas, can understand your culture and the way you think. In the middle of writing this article, my Japanese girlfriend popped her head over my laptop to see what I was working on. If you’ve ever watched a Japanese Game show or variety show, you’ll notice the way Japanese women react, talk and move. While other girls find you strange because you wear thongs (sandals) and shorts every where [I’m looking at you, fellow Aussies], a Japanese girl who has travelled, dated and lived in Australia will understand you and your kangaroo ways. I told her about the topic and she responded with interest (and judgment). They’re graceful, they speak in a cute voice, and walk and stand like the Queen of England. Seeing an opportunity, I asked her what she thought are some “ugly” traits in Japanese women.