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Charles Shyaka a 24-year-old student at University of Rwanda’s College of Business and Economics says that a glaring age difference in relationships can only bring about bad consequences.According to him, being in a relationship with a much older woman would only be a waste of time since such women always have their own targets, like sexual satisfaction.Like Julian, many old women are defying society stereotypes and are dating much younger men.
At some point, she says, she stormed out and grabbed the next motorbike home.
According to Joyce Kirabo who works with the Rwanda Education Board as a counselor and mentor, some young men are materialistic and financially strained, so they look out for older women who are already financially stable and can provide for them.
However, she warns that such relationships usually end in a bad way.
Sometimes I worry and feel ashamed about our age difference but he comforts me and tells me not to worry about what others think and that I should instead focus on how he feels about me.
He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and I feel the same, though I’m scared of how society will react if we decide to get married,” Julian says.
Stories have been told of men who marry women 40 or even 50 years younger than them.